Conflict Resolution Plan for Elementary Students at St. Bernadette School
An important goal at St. Bernadette School is "Social Skills Enhancement". Once strategy used to help students learn how to better enhance their social skills through teaching CONFLICT RESOLUTION. Conflict is a natural part of everyday life. TSudents need to learn at a young age about the ways conflicts can be solved independently and constructively, while maintaining the integrity of all parties involved. If we teach out children how to manage conflict now, they will be able to face it more diplomatically and more positivley as they mature.
T.A.S.R. - THE FOUR STEPS TO SOLVING CONFLICT
STEP 1: THINK!!!
· before you act, remain calm, set the tone
· what would consequences be if I reacted verbally or physically
· how do my actions demonstrate the kind of person I am or aspire to be (Christian-Like is the ultimate goal)
· avoid impulsive lashing out
STEP 2: ASK
· the person to STOP
· why the person said/did that
· be prepared to listen without interrupting
· if the person refuses to answer, allow some time, space
· if it is a significant conflict, come back to it
· if it is something insignificant, leave it alone
STEP 3: STATE YOUR FEELINGS
· remember to stay clam
· tell them to stop
· explain how you were feeling when you reacted
· admit your errors, take responsibility, apologize if necessary
STEP 4: RESOLVE THE CONFLICT OR SEEK TEACHER ASSISTANCE
· brainstorm solutions, decide which one is agreeable to both parties
· keep your word on the agreement
· look for a win/win resolve
*** if you are getting nowhere, seek staff assistance.***